Avoid symlink conflicts when re-extracting eslint-xx.tar.gz (#36068)

Closes #34325

**Background**
When upgrading/reinstalling the ESLint language server, extracting the
archive over an existing version directory that contains symlinks can
fail and interrupt the installation.
```
failed to unpack .../vscode-eslint-2.4.4/.../client/src/shared
File exists (os error 17) when symlinking ../../$shared/ to .../client/src/shared
```

**Root cause**
Extracting into a non-empty directory conflicts with leftover
files/symlinks (e.g., `client/src/shared -> ../../$shared`), causing
“File exists (os error 17)”.

When `fs::metadata(&server_path).await.is_err()` is true, the code falls
back to cached_server_binary, but that still targets the same
(potentially corrupted/half-installed) directory and does not run `npm
install` or `npm run compile`, so the system cannot recover and remains
broken.

**Change**
Before downloading and extracting, delete the target version directory
(vscode-eslint-<version>) to ensure an empty extraction destination and
avoid conflicts.

**Alternative approaches**
temp directory + rename: extract into a clean temp directory and rename
into place to avoid half-installed states

[async-tar](https://github.com/dignifiedquire/async-tar) enhancement:
tolerate already-existing symlinks (or add a “replace-existing” option).

Release Notes:

- Fixed eslint installation not clearing files after previous attempts'

crates/languages/src/typescript.rs

@@ -910,7 +910,7 @@ impl LspAdapter for EsLintLspAdapter {
         let server_path = destination_path.join(Self::SERVER_PATH);
 
         if fs::metadata(&server_path).await.is_err() {
-            remove_matching(&container_dir, |entry| entry != destination_path).await;
+            remove_matching(&container_dir, |_| true).await;
 
             download_server_binary(
                 delegate,