Update blade with transparency and exclusive fullscreen fixes (#10880)

Release Notes:

- N/A

Picks up https://github.com/kvark/blade/pull/113 and a bunch of other
fixes.
Should prevent the exclusive full-screen on Vulkan - related to #9728
cc @kazatsuyu 

Note: this PR doesn't enable transparency, this is left to follow-up

crates/gpui/Cargo.toml

@@ -14,7 +14,7 @@ workspace = true
 default = []
 test-support = ["backtrace", "collections/test-support", "util/test-support"]
 runtime_shaders = []
-macos-blade = ["blade-graphics", "blade-macros", "blade-rwh", "bytemuck"]
+macos-blade = ["blade-graphics", "blade-macros", "bytemuck"]
 
 [lib]
 path = "src/gpui.rs"
@@ -26,7 +26,6 @@ async-task = "4.7"
 backtrace = { version = "0.3", optional = true }
 blade-graphics = { workspace = true, optional = true }
 blade-macros = { workspace = true, optional = true }
-blade-rwh = { workspace = true, optional = true }
 bytemuck = { version = "1", optional = true }
 collections.workspace = true
 ctor.workspace = true
@@ -95,7 +94,6 @@ flume = "0.11"
 #TODO: use these on all platforms
 blade-graphics.workspace = true
 blade-macros.workspace = true
-blade-rwh.workspace = true
 bytemuck = "1"
 cosmic-text = "0.11.2"
 copypasta = "0.10.1"