Respect language server's capabilities when calling GetReferences (#10285)

This PR makes Zed respect the language server's capabilities when
calling the `GetReferences` command (used in "Find All References",
etc.).

This fixes a crash that could occur when using Zed with Gleam v1.0.

Release Notes:

- Made "Find All References" respect the language server's capabilities.
This fixes some instances where certain language servers would stop
working after receiving a "Find All References" request.

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Co-authored-by: Max <max@zed.dev>

crates/collab/src/tests/integration_tests.rs

@@ -4659,9 +4659,16 @@ async fn test_references(
     let active_call_a = cx_a.read(ActiveCall::global);
 
     client_a.language_registry().add(rust_lang());
-    let mut fake_language_servers = client_a
-        .language_registry()
-        .register_fake_lsp_adapter("Rust", Default::default());
+    let mut fake_language_servers = client_a.language_registry().register_fake_lsp_adapter(
+        "Rust",
+        FakeLspAdapter {
+            capabilities: lsp::ServerCapabilities {
+                references_provider: Some(lsp::OneOf::Left(true)),
+                ..Default::default()
+            },
+            ..Default::default()
+        },
+    );
 
     client_a
         .fs()