Update to embed-resource 3.0 (fixes build below windows \?\ path) (#21288)

Accd'g to
https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/pull/9009#issuecomment-1983599232
the manifest is required

Followup for
https://github.com/nabijaczleweli/rust-embed-resource/issues/71

Release Notes:
- N/A

crates/gpui/Cargo.toml

@@ -119,7 +119,7 @@ http_client = { workspace = true, features = ["test-support"] }
 unicode-segmentation.workspace = true
 
 [build-dependencies]
-embed-resource = "2.4"
+embed-resource = "3.0"
 
 [target.'cfg(target_os = "macos")'.build-dependencies]
 bindgen = "0.70.0"