collab: Rework Stripe event processing (#15510)

This PR reworks how we process Stripe events for reconciliation
purposes.

The previous approach in #15480 turns out to not be workable, on account
of the Stripe event IDs not being strictly in order. This meant that we
couldn't reliably compare two arbitrary event IDs and determine which
one was more recent.

This new approach leans on the guidance that Stripe provides for
webhooks events:

> Webhook endpoints might occasionally receive the same event more than
once. You can guard against duplicated event receipts by logging the
[event IDs](https://docs.stripe.com/api/events/object#event_object-id)
you’ve processed, and then not processing already-logged events.
>
> https://docs.stripe.com/webhooks#handle-duplicate-events

We now record processed Stripe events in the `processed_stripe_events`
table and use this to filter out events that have already been
processed, so we do not process them again.

When retrieving events from the Stripe events API we now buffer the
unprocessed events so that we can sort them by their `created` timestamp
and process them in (roughly) the order they occurred.

Release Notes:

- N/A

typos.toml

@@ -6,6 +6,8 @@ extend-exclude = [
     # File suffixes aren't typos
     "assets/icons/file_icons/file_types.json",
     "crates/extensions_ui/src/extension_suggest.rs",
+    # Stripe IDs are flagged as typos.
+    "crates/collab/src/db/tests/processed_stripe_event_tests.rs",
     # Not our typos
     "crates/live_kit_server/",
     # Vim makes heavy use of partial typing tables