Rebuild SSH installation (#20220)

Closes #ISSUE

This refactors SSH installation to require less shell stuff. We'd like
to
support arbitrary remote hosts, and unfortunately csh/tcsh have quoting
rules
that make it impossible to run multi-line scripts.

The primary changes are:
* The target path now contains the version:
`./zed_server/zed-remote-server-{release_channel}-{version}`
* We do all our processing in a temporary file and `mv` it into place.
* We do fewer calls to `ssh_command` overall. With the previous two
changes we can avoid lock files, and fuser calls. Instead cleanup of old
binaries now happens in `execute_run`.
* We only try to install the remote server when the connection is
established, not on each project open.

This should also put us in a good position if we want to pre-emptively
install new versions when the auto-updater detects an update for the
running version of zed (but that's not wired up yet)

Release Notes:

- Remoting: Fixed remoting when the remote runs `tcsh`
- Remoting: Improved latency of connecting

crates/remote_server/Cargo.toml

@@ -53,6 +53,7 @@ serde_json.workspace = true
 settings.workspace = true
 shellexpand.workspace = true
 smol.workspace = true
+sysinfo.workspace = true
 telemetry_events.workspace = true
 util.workspace = true
 worktree.workspace = true