windows: Fix extension uninstall (#18467)

Closes #18153


When calling `uninstall_extension`, the `work_dir` associated with this
`extension` doesn't have its corresponding `FileHandle` properly closed,
preventing the deletion of the `work_dir`. As seen in the image below,
after installing the `toml` extension, `zed.exe` holds two `Handle`s for
the folder `C:\Users\36477\AppData\Local\Zed\extensions\work\toml`.

![Screenshot 2024-09-27
171149](https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/f75f3f6f-9a62-43b5-9450-73ee1ed8e7f9)


Therefore, after deleting `extension_dir` and then calling
`this.update(...)`, `zed.exe` releases these two `Handles`, and only
then can the folder
`C:\Users\36477\AppData\Local\Zed\extensions\work\toml` be deleted. See
the corresponding file handles are closed after calling
`this.update(...)`:

![Screenshot 2024-09-28
132823](https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/476e0494-850a-4af5-b351-899e60ae98f7)

However, if there is a running server of the extension, the error will
persist. At this point, I haven’t found a direct way to terminate all
running servers of the extension. Since this feature might affect the
`LspStore` structure, I paused my work here.


See when `toml` extension is running, we can not delete
`C:\Users\36477\AppData\Local\Zed\extensions\work\toml` since
`C:\Users\36477\AppData\Local\Zed\extensions\work\toml\taplo.exe` is
still running:

![Screenshot 2024-09-28
134709](https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/6801d6e2-2a44-4103-8570-467c507e6e20)



cc @ConradIrwin You're the expert in this area—what are your thoughts?



Release Notes:

- N/A

crates/extension_host/src/extension_host.rs

@@ -837,15 +837,6 @@ impl ExtensionStore {
                 }
             });
 
-            fs.remove_dir(
-                &work_dir,
-                RemoveOptions {
-                    recursive: true,
-                    ignore_if_not_exists: true,
-                },
-            )
-            .await?;
-
             fs.remove_dir(
                 &extension_dir,
                 RemoveOptions {
@@ -855,7 +846,19 @@ impl ExtensionStore {
             )
             .await?;
 
+            // todo(windows)
+            // Stop the server here.
             this.update(cx, |this, cx| this.reload(None, cx))?.await;
+
+            fs.remove_dir(
+                &work_dir,
+                RemoveOptions {
+                    recursive: true,
+                    ignore_if_not_exists: true,
+                },
+            )
+            .await?;
+
             anyhow::Ok(())
         })
         .detach_and_log_err(cx)