SSH Remoting: Fix reload/save race (#19519)

Release Notes:

- N/A

Co-authored-by: Conrad Irwin <conrad.irwin@gmail.com>

crates/project/src/project.rs

@@ -2312,6 +2312,12 @@ impl Project {
 
         let buffer_id = buffer.read(cx).remote_id();
         match event {
+            BufferEvent::ReloadNeeded => {
+                if !self.is_via_collab() {
+                    self.reload_buffers([buffer.clone()].into_iter().collect(), false, cx)
+                        .detach_and_log_err(cx);
+                }
+            }
             BufferEvent::Operation {
                 operation,
                 is_local: true,