Do less git metadata rescans on FS events (#24034)

A preparation for collaborative commit message editing.

Before, almost any `.git`-contained file FS update, except
`.git/fsmonitor--daemon/cookies/**` caused git metadata rescan.
This included `index.lock` that was created after any git operation,
e.g. `git status`, which was unnecessary.
Collaborative editing aims to share `.git/COMMIT_EDITMSG` between
multiple users, so there are potentially multiple users editing the file
and causing excessive events.

The change makes worktree to ignore .git/COMMIT_EDITMSG`,
`.git/index.lock` and `.git/fsmonitor--daemon/**` paths and adjusts the
logic to be more extensible: there's much more files Zed can ignore and
still have its git metadata up to date.

Release Notes:

- N/A

crates/project/src/worktree_store.rs

@@ -56,6 +56,7 @@ pub struct WorktreeStore {
     state: WorktreeStoreState,
 }
 
+#[derive(Debug)]
 pub enum WorktreeStoreEvent {
     WorktreeAdded(Entity<Worktree>),
     WorktreeRemoved(EntityId, WorktreeId),