Add settings to remote servers, use XDG paths on remote, and enable node LSPs (#19176)

Supersedes https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/pull/19166

TODO:
- [x] Update basic zed paths
- [x] update create_state_directory
- [x] Use this with `NodeRuntime`
- [x] Add server settings
- [x] Add an 'open server settings command'
- [x] Make sure it all works


Release Notes:

- Updated the actions `zed::OpenLocalSettings` and `zed::OpenLocalTasks`
to `zed::OpenProjectSettings` and `zed::OpenProjectTasks`.

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Co-authored-by: Conrad <conrad@zed.dev>
Co-authored-by: Richard <richard@zed.dev>

crates/client/src/client.rs

@@ -141,6 +141,7 @@ impl Settings for ProxySettings {
         Ok(Self {
             proxy: sources
                 .user
+                .or(sources.server)
                 .and_then(|value| value.proxy.clone())
                 .or(sources.default.proxy.clone()),
         })
@@ -472,15 +473,21 @@ impl settings::Settings for TelemetrySettings {
 
     fn load(sources: SettingsSources<Self::FileContent>, _: &mut AppContext) -> Result<Self> {
         Ok(Self {
-            diagnostics: sources.user.as_ref().and_then(|v| v.diagnostics).unwrap_or(
-                sources
-                    .default
-                    .diagnostics
-                    .ok_or_else(Self::missing_default)?,
-            ),
+            diagnostics: sources
+                .user
+                .as_ref()
+                .or(sources.server.as_ref())
+                .and_then(|v| v.diagnostics)
+                .unwrap_or(
+                    sources
+                        .default
+                        .diagnostics
+                        .ok_or_else(Self::missing_default)?,
+                ),
             metrics: sources
                 .user
                 .as_ref()
+                .or(sources.server.as_ref())
                 .and_then(|v| v.metrics)
                 .unwrap_or(sources.default.metrics.ok_or_else(Self::missing_default)?),
         })